We came across a video today from Nino Brown titled “A woman leaves mentally first, then her body follows”. Yes his language is harsh but don’t let that be the reason you miss the message, because once you get past language and actually get to the message you will discover that he really dropped gems. You can also check out Nino Brown’s motivational audio book Mackin’ and Stackin’ 3. You can find it in the itunes store and on google play. It’s 20 minutes of serious get your mind right. We would highly recommend you adding this to your daily routine. Here are some of our favorite key points from Nino Brown. Watch the video and tell us what you think.
- Don’t lose your main course over your side entree
Both men and women can fully benefit from understanding this principle. When men or women are cheating, the side piece always seems so much better than what they have at home because that person is an escape from reality. They never deal with real life with the side piece, it’s always a party when they are together. But if you had to invest the time and energy with that person that is necessary for a real relationship to manifest you’d probably discover you don’t even really like that person. You’ll find that you have nothing in common besides having sex. So why risk losing a person of value, that you know you love just because your upset with them or lack sexual self-control.
- The grass ain’t greener on the other side. It just looks like that, but that sh%! Be artificial turf
We easily forget that sugar and salt look the same. The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it. No one in a relationship is going to be perfect. And you are never going to get 100 percent of what you need 100 percent of the time. So instead of running to the next person at the first sign of trouble and trying to fix the problem from the outside, try to work on the problem from the inside. You will never resolve your internal issues with external people.
- 2nd string is the 1st to lose
The petty levels are real. Mostly among females, but the men aren’t exempt. But since this mostly occurs amongst women we will approach this from that viewpoint. When a woman cheats with a man knowing he has a wife or girlfriend they seem to find pleasure in broadcasting the fact that they are sleeping with your man. This seems to be an ego booster for them letting you know because they feel for whatever reason that they are taking something from you and must shout it from the mountain top. Never taking into consideration that you really don’t know this man. You don’t know his family, you’ve never meet his friends. You’re assigned to the day after holidays, motel rooms and yet you find pleasure in attempting to destroy and tear down another woman. Why? Low self-esteem maybe? Is it that you feel really feel stupid when you start to reflect on your “relationship” with a man who’s house you’ve never been to, who’s never spent a holiday with you, except for the day before or the day after. Because on the actual holiday he’s with his real family. So ask yourself, are you broadcasting to his woman that you are sleeping with her man to make yourself feel better?
- D!*k Discipline
A wise woman told her son “Tape your D!*k to your leg and keep it to yourself!”. A mature man will respect himself and know that every woman doesn’t deserve to know him sexually. The 5 minutes of satisfaction is not worth the lifetime of headache if he impregnates some random one-night stand. And let us not forget that there are disease in this world that antibiotics won’t cure. Having some discipline sexually will not only help you in your relationship but if you can master that you can apply that same discipline to the other areas of your life. It’s very easy to fall in lust because a woman in attractive. But it’s not her body that’s going to raise your children, it’s her mentality, her mindset that are going to influence and rear your children. You should be looking for someone that you can build a foundation with, not just some girl that is a good time.
Do you think his points are valid? Or are you unable to receive the message because of the way it was presented? Let us know what you think, do you agree or disagree?